Ladies ... v3

Haha yes every quote or sentence can be discussed , because any of them are not truth but depends on the personal experience or circumstances as truth itself ... So this is why I do not agree with plenty of quotes from famous authors or even with my thoughts I do not agree every day the same way... It is evolution... But every quote was triggered by some experience so it was truth for a moment or for the circumstances known for it's author. ;) I will explain here : I did not mean if someone got sick, it was about healthy person, pretty much on the beginning of relationship not in long term relationship or marriage. It is the same for men too, not just for women, but because I am a woman a little bit annoyed with men as some other ladies I know I wrote it for women ;D ... If me or anyone else is for someone on the second place, or third , or on the last place on the list ... after money, things or not enough time for a while or longer while plus too much lies etc. my experience says go away even if you are in love rather sooner than later (not point to teach anyone to love here).... to make marriage from this would be a complete disaster... ;( If someone cost me more than I have, I can not afford him.;D If I want to spend time with someone, but he is busy with better things all the time, sorry I will make me busy too.;D Maybe I am little bit of evil, what can I do? The real love should be unconditional everyone say - but what is the real love? A feeling - a word ... and we give it definition ... so it can be ... anything ... plus love has so many forms ... plus there are so many types of love... Unconditional love between people is not possible , because when your wife helped you she received something - the good feeling (but not everyone need good feelings, that's fact) but anyway it was not unconditional love either... Plus she knew you, so she was sure the thing she was doing is the right thing what is visible on the fact you realized she loved you a lot finally... ;)

Five years ago I got sick and I was not able to love my wife because of my fears and phobia. If it was not for my loving wife, who loved ME more then I was able to love her, I would probably not be here right now. Love is not conditional but unconditional. Love is something that is given not received. How do you know if that man does not learn from YOU how to love. Warm Regards, Bruce